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《态度决定一切：披露一切人生财富的心理根源》 ［美］罗曼·Ｖ·皮尔 著 这是一本极具价值的人生指南读物

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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　面对这个问题，里奇皱起眉头回答道：</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我不知道，因为我还没有退休！</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　虽然创造了众多佳绩，但他绝不认为这样就达到了所有目标，他不断向新的目标挑战，因此不断创造出杰出的成就。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>拥有信念比拥有才能更重要</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　不久前，我应邀在加利福尼亚丁香花园水晶大教堂星期天早晨的礼拜上演讲。这个宏伟的教堂是罗伯特·休勒博士以虔诚的信仰和</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>500</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>美元基金的基础上建立起来的，那天早晨是</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>30</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>周年纪念庆典。大教堂里挤满了听众，报纸报导说有</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>11000</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>人。</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　这座由钢铁和玻璃建造的大教堂被有晶莹喷泉的庭园所环绕，每星期通过电视播放礼拜的讯息，是数百万人的灵魂之家。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　在这个特别的星期天，休勒博士为满足信徒们的要求，发表了建立新中心的计划。在别人看来，休勒博士早已功德圆满，达到了他的人生目标，然而人生态度积极的人，在达到某个目标后，就会设定一个新目标。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　无论你是怎样全力以赴实现了某个目标，也不能说已经完成了一切。要是已经完成了几个目标，那么应该再设定新的、更感兴趣的目标。我要再重复一次：在你面前，还有无数美好的机会在等待着你！</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　即使过去创下过显赫的业绩，也不能说已经足够。对你来说，最好的东西还在后头。不要在回顾自己的业绩时说</span><span
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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>做得真好，目标已完全实现</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
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"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>证明自己还有进一步发展的可能</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>。要经常相信自己的面前有永无止境的美好未来，不能有丝毫怀疑。这样就能从某种程度的成功，继续走向更大的成功，从而拥有不断发展的壮阔人生。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　美国社会人生观的基础就是人人机会均等，人人都能靠自己的信念和能力获得发展。怀有何种信念或思想，远比拥有才能更重要。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　我深切地认识到积极的态度和信念的重要性，所以能成功地说服许多人，让他们知道凭借思想、信仰、对自身能力的自信，就能激发出意想不到的潜能。事实上，这种凭借积极的态度和信念，使平凡的人做成不平凡事业的例子并不缺乏。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　包括我在内，有不少人撰写励志书籍来激励人们，但比这些书更能孕育杰出人物的是美国本身所具备的特质。再重复一遍：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　怀有何种信念，远比拥有才能更重要。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　态度决定一切！</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>夹着</span><span
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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>目标</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　在美国中西部的某市，有一次我和爱人露丝应邀去一位极其成功的实业家优雅的宅邸做客，他是创办美国某著名企业的大人物。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　过去我很荣幸有机会把赫纳肖·亚尔加奖颁给他。这个奖旨在奖励出身寒微，力争上游，终于在社会上崭露头角的人。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>你是在哪里出生的？</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　我问他。回答是意想不到的：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我也不清楚，大概是亚特兰大市吧。我不知道自己的父母是谁，我是个孤儿，由养父母带大，然后带着几美元踏入了这个社会。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他换了好几种工作，最后在印第安那州福特·维因的一家餐厅当实习服务生。他既聪明又勤快，把工作做得很好。餐厅的主人看在眼里，就把俄亥俄州哥伦布快要倒闭的小店交给他经营，考验他的能力。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　一开始，他无论如何也没有办法使那家小店兴旺起来，后来他找出业务不顺的原因是因为菜式过多，采购时容易浪费，因此没有利润。于是他减少菜式，果然使生意日渐兴隆起来。后来他用自己赚的钱开了一个汉堡餐厅，因为他从小就喜欢吃汉堡。他以女儿的名字温迪作为店名。这家小店声誉远播，店面也逐渐扩大。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他就是迪布·汤姆斯，经常注意使用最好的牛肉，不断想出新点子，受欢迎的连锁店陆续开张起来。在他的干劲和信念的推动下，温迪连锁店现在已多达</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>3200</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>家。在快餐界排名第一。</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　但要是有人问他是否已经登上了人生的巅峰，迪布一定会坚决否认。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　就是像他这样的人，使美国经济获得长足的发展。这些人不断设定新目标，来实现更高的理想。</span><span
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mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>获得杰出成就的九个要诀</span><span
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