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《态度决定一切：披露一切人生财富的心理根源》 ［美］罗曼·Ｖ·皮尔 著 这是一本极具价值的人生指南读物

style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>或者说：</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>他是那么成功，再也不缺少什么了。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　事实上，</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>成功者</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>往往会感到寂寞，似乎遗失了什么重要的东西。</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　那是因为推动他们跨越高峰的原动力</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>--</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>动力、精力或刺激已经变得淡薄。对于实现目标，不再像过去那样感到刺激和兴奋。随着最终目标的完成，努力的方向不再明确，即使胜券在握，也毫无喜悦之感。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　一位成功者这样说：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我的人生已没有什么乐趣可言。我不必再像过去那样辛劳工作，也不再有需要解决的问题。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　美国有位著名的企业家，是几家著名大公司的董事长，他的事业发展速度之快，令人瞠目结舌。他年方</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>35</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁，就已在竞争激烈的商界赢得极高的地位。到了</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>40</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁，他对一切已感到厌倦，在他</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>45</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>岁时便宣称自己已经完成了一切，他的全盛时代结束了。</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他这样感叹道：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>今后，我所能做的只是设法保住自己的地位，不被别人取代。现在想来，努力奋斗寻求发展的时代，要愉快得多。那是我人生中的黄金时期，现在再也领略不到那种乐趣了。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　可是，也有生活方式或思想与他全然不同的人。他们达到一个目标后，又接着设定下一个新目标，再度接受挑战，完成这个目标。过去的梦想实现后，又抱着新的梦想，向更大、更能专心投入的目标努力迈进。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他们对生活、工作和获得成功永远能感受到相同的喜悦，始终保持旺盛的斗志，精力充沛、日新月异地昂首向前，不论在任何时刻都不会丧失热忱和创造力。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　对他们来说，</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>目标都已达到</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>这种情况是不存在的，换句话说，他们无时无刻都在为自己新的目标奋斗不懈。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　真正的兴趣、永无止境的快乐和幸福感是在朝着目标努力拼搏时才能体会到的，而不是在达到目标之后。确定新的目标，以不变的斗志和进取心，再度面对挑战，这时才会有真正的快乐。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　永远能感受到幸福的人，是对追求新目标保持兴趣、永远在向更高层次迈进的那些人。不少成功者常会满足地想，好不容易获得成功，终于可以安心了。可是，一旦有了这种想法，就再也感受不到成功的喜悦，也会失去向目标努力的乐趣。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>成为向自我挑战的人</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　被公认为百货业最伟大的推销员的艾摩斯·帕立舒，可以称得上是真正最幸福的人。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他有口吃的毛病，尽管如此，他每年在纽约大都会饭店举办例行演讲时，偌大的会场总是挤满了全国各百货公司的经理，屏息敛气地聆听他分析市场概况和发展趋势，这足以证明他取得的成就。但对他来说，这不过是他达到的众多目标中的一个而已。直到晚年，他的头脑仍旧十分敏锐，不断产生出人意料的新构思。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　每当我为他取得的某个成就向他表示祝贺时，他都毫不在意，只是兴冲冲地说：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>你听听我现在想到的这个奇妙的构想。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他一专注什么，说话就会口吃。在他</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>94</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁的时候，别人告诉我他快要不久于人世了。我听到这个消息，赶紧给他打去电话。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>嗨！</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>他的热情一如往常，</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我又有了新的构想，是个非常美妙的构想呢。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他简要地说明了他那令人兴奋的新目标。他根本没有提到死亡，只是尽情诉说生的喜悦。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他因病情恶化而去世，是两天以后的事。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　艾摩斯·帕立舒是一个成功的企业家，但他从没有认为自己已完成了一切。他永远在向下一个目标前进，一生都走在达到下一个目标的路上。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　同艾摩斯一样，美国棒球界著名人物布兰琪·里奇，也是一个令人毕生难忘的杰出人物。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他曾任圣路易士红衣队、布鲁克林道奇队以及匹兹堡海盗队的教练。他所撰写的《美国的钻石》是棒球运动的经典之作。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　在庆祝布兰琪·里奇的棒球生涯五十周年晚会上，一名记者这样问他：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>在美国的重要运动之一的棒球界纵横了半个世纪，你觉得最大的收获是什么？</span><span