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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 有些人认为自己是天生具有</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>积极思维</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>的人，而大多数的人则是费尽苦心才学会拥有</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>积极思维</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>的能力。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 其实，有很多证据显示人天生就具有积极的态度。我从未见过消极的婴儿，只是有不少婴儿诞生在消极的家庭里。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 幼儿对四周的气氛非常敏感，很快就会吸收这个家庭独特的想法和感觉。因此，家庭气氛如果是由消极思维主导的，幼儿在无意识中就会形成消极思维。他们养成了消极思维的习惯，长大成人后，例如到</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>20</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁或</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>30</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>岁以后，再想成为</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>积极思维</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>的人，就要面对如何改变多年来的思考习惯的问题。重新学习思考习惯，是需要付出相当大的努力的。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 幸好人不仅有养成习惯的力量，也有破坏习惯的力量。所以任何习惯都是能改变的。每次都经历同样的思维过程，往往会在大脑内刻划出深沟，可以借着由衷的希望、强烈的意志以及敏锐的想象力来弥合那些深沟。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 具有造物主的外形与性格的人类，和造物主一样，生来就怀着积极的思想。造物主对其所创造的人寄予莫大的信赖，并赋予他们选择权。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 人也有权利从真理中选择错误；从善中选择恶；从正中选择不正。也被允许不选择积极的思考方法而选择消极的思维。在持着某种价值观生活多年之后，运用自己的选择权，重新选择完全相反的价值观，也是随时都有可能的。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 基督教称这种情形为</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>回心</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>。所谓</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>回心</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>就是从根本上改变自己。</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> </span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>任何人在基督中，都成为新的被创造者，旧的人已经成为过去。看吧，一切成为新的。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 就因为如此，所以要特别强调，只要把消极思维改为积极思维，任何人都能享受到幸福。不论你过去有多长时间一直秉持着消极思维，你也能做到！</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 我之所以敢以这样强烈的信心下断言，是因为我自己曾经就是这样的人。我确信，我能将消极思维改为积极思维，只要不畏艰难，努力坚持，任何人都应该能够做到。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 与其空谈理论，不如以自己的实际经验现身说法更具说服力，下面我就谈谈自己的体验。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 我在少年时代，曾为自己极度缺乏自信心和有强烈的自卑感而苦恼。不仅如此，我和许多少年一样怀有自己梦想和目标，但是对否能够实现它们却毫无把握，力不从心。我为此更是苦恼不堪。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 我是在精神活动非常活跃的人群中长大的。也可以说是在看起来常有许多忧心事的环境中长大。我的家庭经常显得拮据，这样的境况自然会助长我不安定的情绪。对一切都感到不确定，恐惧失败的结果，无疑是我少年时代的精神特点。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 不管怎么说，我的自卑感和缺乏信心，都与消极态度有关。尽管对将来怀有梦想，但我是个消极思维的人。这种不幸状态，一直持续到我大学二年级。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 大二时，我以奇迹般的方法，将消极的世界观完全扭转了过来。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 成为积极的人，第一个条件就是要有强烈的愿望。有热切的想变得积极的愿望，必然会使你马上行动开始自我改造。一旦你拥有了从消极思维变成积极思维的强烈信念，你就必定会获得成功。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 如果你现在已经是一个积极的人，很可能自己也不知道什么时候变成了这样。事实上，正是在不懈努力的过程中你得到了改变。只要你不断努力，就会涌现出崭新的，强有力的积极思想。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>做一个</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>对正义感到饥渴的人</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 怎样才能成为一个积极思维的人？并且怎样才能持续下去呢？</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 正如前述，第一个条件就是要有强烈的愿望。但仅此是远远不够的。想做一个积极思维的人，仅怀着可有可无的憧憬是难以做到的。必须贯注自己所有的热情去希望，否则就不可能成功。如果能常持这样认真的心态，可以说，你已经具备了成为积极思考者的基本条件。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 在这里，我要再次指出，有人天生就具备积极思考的能力。他们很幸运，童年时代并没有在消极的环境中成长，由于某种原因，可能是遗传或家庭影响，他们没有受到社会上泛滥的消极意识的毒害。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 有些人天生就拥有积极的思维，与怀着消极思想的人相比，他们似乎只是少数。可是，自从</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>1930</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>年代大恐慌出现以来，这种积极思维的思想和行动概念，便广受人们的重视。树立积极的人生态度的人也因此与日俱增。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 一天晚上，我在亚特兰大推销员集会上讲演过后，有一名青年对我说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我真希望以后仍能不断强化自己的积极思维。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>看得出这是他由衷的希望，我问他：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>有过什么样的经验吗？</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> 他说，他出生于极为贫困的农民家庭，他的父亲竭尽所能也无法使小农场欣欣向荣，农具又破又旧。因为没有钱，只好自己动手修理。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> </span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>"</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>家里人做事都不灵巧，一年到头缺钱，家人的谈话经常都是消极的，</span><span
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