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《态度决定一切：披露一切人生财富的心理根源》 ［美］罗曼·Ｖ·皮尔 著 这是一本极具价值的人生指南读物

"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>不可能</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;......</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>这些消极的语言一起向自己冲过来时该怎么办呢？这时候就要以</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>下一次</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>可能</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>等积极的语言来迎击。</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　这说来容易，实行起来却并不那么简单，往往困难重重。可是只要你不屈不挠地努力，积极思考，怀有信念，最后你一定能获得胜利，而且是巨大的胜利。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　然后学会如何做到达观，就会懂得看起来受到破坏的东西，还有其创造性的一面。而那样的一面，是由当初以为一切都被破坏的某种事件作为契机，真正归你所有的。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　事情进行不顺利时，最后还是有可能会有好的结果。因此当希望、梦想或目标被打碎时，就要在那残骸中仔细寻找，在看来已粉碎的残骸中，也许能找到最好的机会之苗。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>驱走不幸的摩德凯</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　你听说过棒球联盟最佳投手摩德凯·勃朗的故事吗？他的父母非常贫穷，但和一般的美国人一样，他们并不认为自己真正贫穷，他从小就决心要成为棒球联盟的投手，从儿童时代就表现出与众不同的才能。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　和当时所有的孩子一样，他也在农场工作补贴家用，有一天手被机械夹住，失去了右手食指的大部分，中指也受了重伤。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　如果是一个消极思维的人，一定会悲观地认为：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>当投手的希望完全破灭了。要是没有发生那件事就好了。手变成这样，再也不能投球了。梦已飞到窗外去了，完全不可能实现了。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　可是这位少年不这样想，也没那样说。他完全接受了这个不幸的事实，尽自己最大的努力，学会用剩余的手指投球，终于成为地方球队的三垒手。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　有一天，摩德凯从三垒传球到一垒，球队经理刚好站在一垒的正后方，看到旋转的快速球划着美妙的曲线进入一垒手的手套里，惊叹道：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>摩德凯，你是天生的好投手。球控制得好，球速也快。那种会旋转的球，任何击球手都会挥棒落空。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　摩德凯投的球速度快，又有角度，上下飘忽，然后进入捕手手套的中央。击打者都束手无策。摩德凯将击球手一个个三振出局。他的三振纪录和成功投球的次数都很了不起，不久便成为美国棒球界最佳投手之一。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　正是受伤的手指，也就是变短的食指和扭曲的中指，使球产生了如此与众不同的角度和旋转。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　那么，少年摩德凯是如何把不幸事件变成对自己事业的有益因素呢？</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他在信仰虔诚的家庭长大，从小就朴实地相信发挥自己的力量能完成任何事情。就因为他是有积极态度的人，才能发挥难以置信的力量，解决了人生中几乎不可能解决的困难问题。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　正因为他完全排除了</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>要是那样的话</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>做不到</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>或</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>不可能</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>的语言，所以才能成为杰出的棒球选手，名扬后世。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　听了这个故事以后，也许你会说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我不是摩德凯·勃朗那样的超人，遇到他那样的不幸，我是没有办法重新站起来的。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>请你记住，在摩德凯的手受伤时，他也绝不是个超人。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　任何人都潜藏有比自己所了解的更优秀的素质。最重要的就是要说创造性的话</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>下一次</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>能做到</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>有可能</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>。和具有</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>积极思维</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>的聪明人一样，你也绝不要用</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>要是那样的话</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>做不到</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>、</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>不可能</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>这类词句。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>信念</span><span lang=EN-US