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《态度决定一切：披露一切人生财富的心理根源》 ［美］罗曼·Ｖ·皮尔 著 这是一本极具价值的人生指南读物

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style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我知道你是很有声望的人。但请告诉我，你是不是在苦恼什么呢？</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他久久地望着我，终于以颤抖的声音对我说：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>是的。大家都认为我很爱护家人。在教会担任执事，也在政府机构任重要官职。然而我却做出了可耻的事情。老实说，我是个犯了罪的伪善者。要是知道了真相，谁也不会再尊敬我了。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　我建议他悔改、忏悔、补偿。这样一定能得到宽恕和心安，治疗他的心病。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　他对我道出自己所犯的罪过，谦虚地请求宽恕，我告诉他上帝是爱他的，已经宽恕了他，他深深叹了一口气，低声说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我感到舒服多了，这样一定睡得着了。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　从那时开始，他的病情逐渐好转，终于恢复健康，重新过上对社会有贡献的生活。他的身体、心灵以及灵魂都恢复了平衡。他再次获得了三方面都很圆满的健康。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　人的健康状态是与本人的想法是否健全，道德是否清纯相呼应的。清纯的灵魂确实能不断地将新的健康送进人体里。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　对</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>500</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>名病人所做的临床实验结果显示，其中有</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>383</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>人的病因，不是意外事件或器官异变。一个医生说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>是病人把脑中的病态想法的脓送到了体内。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　柏拉图说过：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>不应该治疗肉体而不治疗灵魂。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>现代的思想家现在才发觉这位古代贤人的伟大思想。</span><span lang=EN-US
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　应该经常努力追求三方面都圆满的健康。要保持身体、心灵与灵魂三个基本要素的调和与平衡。不要忘记只有在这三方面不矛盾地协调作用，才有可能长保健康。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>是选择区分了胜者与败者</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　能否获得幸福、繁荣与成功的人生，完全要看是否能做到正确的选择。人生中有对自己有益的因素和无益的因素。为了获得健康与活力，必须要能看出哪些是有益的因素，哪些是无益的因素，然后做出正确的选择。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　每天早晨一起床就要选择。也就是选择积极的态度</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>(</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>创造性、热情、爱、信念、希望</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>)</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>，还是选择消极的态度</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>(</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>憎恨、恐惧、不安、愤怒、忧虑</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>)</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>。</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　只要一有松懈，消极的态度就会趁虚而入，缠住你不放，一旦被缠住了，以后就会不断地产生消极的结果，也就会使活力、创造力或意愿减退，最后夺走可贵的健康。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　幸好了解人性的聪明读者，必定能活用有益的因素，排除一切无益的因素，保持自己健康的身体。这就是能给人带来益处的重大选择。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　为了做出这样的选择，就需要具备明确的思考和坚毅的信念。信念一虚弱就会被怀疑取代。怀疑到最后会残害所有人。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　查尔斯·梅约博士说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我没有听说过有谁因为工作过多而死亡，但因疑念而死亡的人可就太多了。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　有一名女子</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>87</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁的父亲，在过马路时被撞身亡。死后解剖的结果，发现她父亲身体里潜伏着会发展成重病的病源。但在他生前，那样的病症并没有出现。医生对他的女儿说：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>令尊的身体里潜伏着足以恶化引发各种疾病的病因。事实上就是</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>20</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>年前去世也没有什么奇怪，可是听你说来，令尊快到</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>90</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>岁时还很活跃，很有精神，这真令人惊讶。</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　她回答说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>&quot;</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>先父每天早晨习惯说：</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>'</span><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:
"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:
"Times New Roman"'>今天将会是美好的一天。</span><span lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>'</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>如果有人指出某种不祥的征候，先父一定会回答说：</span><span
lang=EN-US style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>'</span><span
style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>我有信心。</span><span lang=EN-US
style='font-family:"Times New Roman"'>'&quot;<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　很显然，这位父亲在自己的身体里具备了活跃的生命力。虽然体内有病因，但还是非常有活力。他所拥有的信念、精力、意愿以及热爱人生的心，压制住了疾病的蠢动。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　我建议你早晨打开窗户做深呼吸，从你房里的窗户眺望天空，然后说：</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　主啊，感谢你让我活着。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　感谢你让我拥有家人和朋友。</span><span
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<p class=MsoPlainText><span style='mso-ascii-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-hansi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>　　今天一定能成为美妙的一天。</span><span
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